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Can You Save Your Marriage When the American Dream Is Hijacking It?

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Nearly half of Americans live check to check and have no time to nurture relationships.

Are we living the American dream?

According to a new poll 43 percent of Americans live check to check and couldn’t pay their bills if they missed one month of work.  It’s no wonder why it’s such a struggle to save your marriage. You have no time and no energy to give.

In today’s blog I will show how you got into this mess (don’t worry it’s not all you) and actionable steps to get out.  Let’s take a closer look as to how this all goes down.

The American Psychological Association reports in their latest study that 75 percent of Americans have financial stress and a survey conducted by Citibank stated that 57 percent of divorces cited money problems as their reason for dissolving the marriage.

​Does Marriage Counseling Work? Here are the Top 20 Reasons Why It ABSOLUTELY Does!

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Is Couples Counseling Effective And Can It Save Your Marriage?

Oh God… That permanent pit in your gut just won’t go away.  It’s the constant reminder that your marriage is failing and you can’t seem to do a damn thing about it.

It’s not like you haven’t tried to save your marriage, you’ve tried everything!  Date nights, doing more around the house, dressing up, losing weight, giving compliments, reading books, and yet it always turns out the same.  You two bickering, arguing, or all out brawling.

So now you’re considering professional help.  But you’re skeptical “Does marriage counseling really work?”

Top 10 Ways To Tell if You’re Getting The Best Marriage Counselor or Getting Shafted

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Marriage advice can be very expensive.  Make sure you find the right relationship expert to help save your marriage.

In my last article, I wrote about marriage counseling costs and the reasons why it’s so expensive.

But how do you know if you have a professional that will deliver on their promise and hype?

Top 10 Ways to Tell If You’re Getting the Best Marriage Counselor Or Getting Shafted:

Why Is Counseling SO Damn Expensive!? Marriage Counseling Costs Explained

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Marriage Counseling Costs Causes Major Sticker Shock.  Here’s Why It’s So Expensive to get Relationship Advice.

Are you out of your mind!?

That’s probably what you thought when you first heard how much marriage counseling costs.

The second thought was probably how much this sucks.  Here you two are struggling to save your marriage and this expert wants to charge enough to have you blowing a few grand in short order. 

Besides Donating to The Expert’s Petty Cash Fund Where Does all This Money Go?

Wonder About New Parent Sex Lives? Here’s A Peak

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Awe… Welcome to parenthood.  The land of feeling like you are NEVER doing enough.  

A recent study agrees.  You can’t do it all, especially when you’re a new mom.  Having a baby enter the mix is a BIG transition and it takes a toll on the new mama’s libido.  

Besides the stress from becoming a new mom lets be honest and say, we don’t feel sexy after popping out a 9-pound melon.  We have this overwhelming urge to hold our young and nurture like crazy.  We become this mother hen clucking around the house making sure all is well.  

I don’t know about you but when I’m in “mom” mode I can’t just drop my panties and get into dirty wifey mode.  It’s polar opposite states of mind, especially in the beginning stages of parenthood.  

So You Fell Back in Love…Now What?

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Final 3 Steps to Strength and Repair After the Affair

Take a second and remember where you were just weeks ago.  You couldn’t imagine surviving the earth shattering pain, let alone feeling this way about your partner that strayed.  

Let’s Have Some Fun

You get to co-create a life that will support the progress that you two have made, as well as, surround you with what matters most in life, more time.

 The final steps in this 3 Phase infidelity recovery program are, (1) slow down, (2) simplify, and (3) savor. 

How To Re-Engage With Your Cheating Spouse Without The RAGE

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Okay…With Containable Anger

So you’ve decided to give your marriage another chance.  But how in the hell are you two going to make this time different?

You two are about to embark on the journey through Phase II.  Remember in Phase I, it was all about triage and damage control from the trauma that ensued after the affair was revealed. 

In this next phase you both will get an opportunity to share your perspective about how the marriage was before the aftermath from a decision that threatened to take down your world.  

Do you remember the skills that you learned in Phase I, self-soothing and unyielding patience?  Good because you will need them to get through the upcoming exercises.  

Damn It! Please Make the Thoughts STOP!

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3 Ways To Control How Much The Affair Gets To Rip Away From Your Life  

When the dust from the initial life-shattering bomb has begun to settle you’re shocked to hear yourself ask, Okay, now what?

It’s been weeks of night sweats and devastating pain that threatens to bring you to your knees every time the truth telling reel begins to play in you head.  You know that you’re not ready to reconcile with your partner, but at the same time you need to start to explore the path of healing.  Because you sure as hell can’t stay in this state much longer.

What To Do In The IMMEDIATE Aftermath of An Affair

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How to recover from infidelity using this 3 phase method.

To The Betrayed,

Right now you feel utterly destroyed.  The amount of pain that you’re in is indescribable.

You want to scream, but the only sound that comes out is a broken roar from the unearthed sobs that you can’t control.  Your mind races from one end of the relationship to the other searching for answers.  Questions like, were there clues that you missed that could have alerted you this was coming, plague your mind.

It won’t STOP!   The story line that you can come up with has only bits and pieces flashing across the screen in your mind, like a faulty film reel.  So you beg your partner to relinquish the knowledge so that your mind can find peace.   Even though deep down you know more anguish is in the details, your mind won’t rest until it gets some answers.

3 Simple Ways Couples Counseling Can Actually SAVE Your Marriage

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Happy, healthy, and yes blissfully sexy relationships take W-O-R-K.

 

How important is the relationship that you have with your spouse?  

Extremely important.  In fact it’s the most important relationship (not including religion and self) that you’ll ever have.

When your relationship is not up to par, the rest of your life takes a major hit.  Other relationships suffer and your level of over all satisfaction goes down.